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Joined: Feb 13
Posted: 14 Mar 2013, 12:52
I am not trying to bring anyone down. Yesterday I felt good about myself until my granddaughter
decided to write some horrible things about me on her Facebook and Twitter pages. They were
nasty, mean, selfish, ruthless things. I was everything but a child of God. I am somewhat depressed
lacking in spirit & energy...wondering where did I go wrong in raising this girl. My husband always favor her, but he do not know what changes or the things she has been putting me thru...its almost like she rebelling against me because her parents in jail and deceased. She is really acting way out...painfuleven thou she is hurting herself. I thought I was leading teaching her right path to follow the differences of life, but I failed. I need help my walls are closing in...yes my health is bad I sm sickly and I need to loose weight...Dr orders ....that I know, or in 10 yrs I will be at death doors. I am not all together at present...just not in that zone right now, feeling so unloved by her. I see the road she is traveling it's heading down very dsngerous path . My husbsnd (Lord help him) let me say blames me...so I will be out of fatsecret fsmily for a while....ok?. I have no one to talk too about anything, so I need to see a therapist to help me get some understanding of what I am doing wrong and how to find me....
JUST PRAY with me please. ..and forgive my post....lilzkakez
I wish everyone the best in reaching their goals msy God richly Bless You...
Joined: Aug 12
Posted: 14 Mar 2013, 13:01
Unfortunately we always hurt the people closest. As teenagers we hit out at our parents as an easy target as its unlikely they will react against us. And yet so called friends can do anything and we forgive them...bizarre. You are probably doing a great job as a parent but the nature of a child is to rebel as they can't see what is being done for them. Try not to take it too much to heart and remember you can only guide its up to them to make their decisions in life.. Right or wrong. I hope you find your peace, and as a great Irish comedian used to say 'may your god go with you'
Joined: Mar 13
Posted: 14 Mar 2013, 13:08
I feel so sad for you. And good that you have decided to see someone to talk to. But don't forsake taking care of your physical self. Sometimes just reading what others say will help you.
Joined: Apr 12
Posted: 14 Mar 2013, 13:09
I had a similar thing happen to me when my cousin told me her mother said I was fat due to stuffing my face which is partially true but I also have insulin resistance. I had to up my anti-depressants and I even thought about suicide. I never want to feel like that again so I try to not care what people say. We'll win this battle together.
Joined: Apr 12
Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 08:41
Hi, sending prayers to you and to your granddaughter. It sounds like she is in a lot of pain. You must stand strong in your beliefs and keep praying on her and change will come. I hope you come back here. There are people that care.
Joined: Jan 13
Posted: 15 Mar 2013, 14:42
First... blessings for taking care of her. You're amazing.
Next... sit her down and ask her what her problem is? I did that with my step-daughter. It wasn't me, but I was closest to her and she lashed out at me. Tell her you're feelings are hurt and if she's unhappy, perhaps it's time for her to consider living with someone else.
Lastly. Probably not agreed to by most on here, but it's time for hubby to know the truth. Show him the posts. You need support and backup. You can't do this yourself. Also look for some support. There are many groups online that you can share with others who are experiencing similar problems.
May I be free to be the me that I came into this world to be.
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