My boyfriend doesn't like "skinny" women?

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Posted: 07 Jan 2013, 10:16

This is me at 151 lbs I'm 5 feet 2 inches, per my doctor a healthy weight is 128 lbs on the low end and 135 lbs on the high end. I'm pretty solid due to genetics, my dad has like 0% body fat and my mom is a fox Laughing

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Posted: 07 Jan 2013, 11:40
You hold your weight very well... I could only wish to look that good in a bikini... At any weight lol

I started my weight loss journey in September at 210.. I joined Fat Secret in the middle of October at 196.. Since then this is what I have accomplished.

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Posted: 08 Jan 2013, 09:02
Thank you! I bought it well before I could fit in comfortably so taking that picture was very victorious.

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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 09:29
Razzle_n_dazzle wrote:
Thanks for all the compliments!! I don't why my ticker is still saying I'm 153, but I'm 166, at a size 13/ xl in shirts. I'm trying to still reach my goal of 150. Honestly looking at the before picture gives me chills; I was not happy in that point of my life.. So, if he doesn't like it, then he has to deal with it lol. My blood pressure use to be above prehypertension, now its way below 120. I'm healthy and happier. &&selenap20, I use imugur .com> upload the image> then use the BBCode (message boards & forums) to post here.

I also see nothing wrong with men who prefer a large woman, it's a taste thing, just like I prefer skinny women some men prefer the opposite, I see nothing wrong with that, and if the woman is confortable with her body, let them both be happy, which doesn't seem to be your case.

Obviously we all know it is not healthy to be 'fat', sooner or later you develop health problems because of that and with only 24yo you were already suffering from prehypertension/hypertension, you certainly did the right thing.

People often ask me, why I decided to lose weight, did I fall in love, or something like that, I usually say that only for myself, I just turned 30, and so far, I have had a perfect, health, hit the perfect score in every medical exam, however, I knew that was just a matter of time before my weight and cigarrete habits became an issue, so I decided, just like you to lose weight, and for the first time since I was 17yo, I'm weighting under 100kg.

I have to say, in the the first photo, you looked very unhealthy and in the second one, you look hot! I say that with all due respect, keep up the good work!
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Posted: 09 Jan 2013, 10:09
Thank ya. I hated the first photo; It's been in deep hiding, until now. Looks like you're doing well on your weight loss, too.. Keep up the good work!

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Posted: 10 Jan 2013, 01:27
Digging out those old photos really puts things in perspective sometimes, don't they? Back when I was the largest, I really didn't think that it was all that bad. Now, looking back, I don't even recognize that guy holding my wife's hand. I need to find him and kick his ass. lol.

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