Greetings: If you click on your "MY FAT SECRET" tab you will see on the lower right screen something called "Toolbox". Click on "My Account" and scroll down. There is a click box where you can enable whether you share your information with others, just your buddies, or keep private. Both you and your husband will need to click the box "share with buddies" - I think this is what you may have missed. Good luck! HCB
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