It finally clicked with me last month. God put the verse on my heart, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." He told me, "Becky, that means for you and food, you can ONLY do this through Christ. You cannot (obviously) do this on your own." I had to humble myself to this fact, but since then, God's power has really worked to make it possible for me to do what I need to do and see this is as the way my life will be going forward - regular exercise, tracking what I eat, eating "real" food.
If hunger isn't the problem, then food isn't the answer.